How to be the Best Christmas Party Guest
In a previous post, I covered the basics of being the Perfect Party Host. But what if you are attending a party? What is some guidance for you as a Christmas party guest? By doing a few small things you can improve your interactions with the other guests while making a good impression on the host. Let’s take a look!
Party Guests Tip #1:
Always R.S.V.P.
Let’s be honest, not responding to an invitation is rude. A host would much rather hear that you cannot come than wonder why they never heard back from you. No one wants to have to follow up to see if someone is coming to their event or not. Either let the host know that you will be happy to attend, or politely decline. Either way you should thank them for the invitation. Respond as early as you can and try not to cancel last minute.
Party Guests Tip #2:
Ask to Contribute
Sometimes hosts will ask people to bring something to a party, and other times they plan on providing everything themselves. Some hosts feel like they shouldn’t ask their guests to bring anything, but greatly appreciate when someone does. Whether the answer is yes or no, it’s always polite to offer to contribute.
Party Guests Tip #3:
Bring a Hostess Gift
This is by no means required, but is a very thoughtful gesture, especially during the holidays. By bringing a small gift you are presenting a token of gratitude, thanking your host for inviting you and organizing this event. There is no doubt they will be presently surprised to receive this!
Not sure of what to bring, or looking for something more unique than a typical hostess gift? I have a whole list of unique ideas for you here.
Party Guests Tip #4:
Offer a Helping Hand
Another kind gesture towards your host is to offer your help during or after the event. Ask to help them bring the food out from the kitchen, serve the drinks, or wash the dishes after the party. You host may or may not accept, but I can guarantee they appreciate having someone offer.
Party Guests Tip #5:
Have Fun!
The best part of a party is the interactions you make. Sometimes we already know the other guests, while other times we find ourselves surrounded by new faces. This is your chance to bring out your extroverted side (whether it comes out naturally or you need to give yourself a little push to make it happen). Even if you feel a little out of your element, work to socialize and remember that everyone else is there to have fun too.
The more you interact at the event, the more you will enjoy yourself. And hosts want nothing more than to see their guests having a good time! If you aren’t the most social of butterflies, then take a look at this great article from the New York Times on How to Be Better at Parties. These step by steps tips just might help you build that extra bit of confidence you were needing.
Party Guests Tip #6:
Say Hello & Goodbye
While the host should try to greet you upon your arrival, they might have a lot going on. If you are not greeted shortly after you walk in, try to seek out your host to say hello. Also, be sure to say goodbye to fellow guests as well as your host. It’s polite to thank your host before you leave for the evening.
Party Guests Tip #7:
Embrace the Holiday Spirit
Get into it! Wear your festive attire, bring a seasonal treat to share, participate in the games, or even sing along to the Christmas music if you’re up for it! Remember, you came here to have a good time. Be present, enjoy yourself, and let any of that holiday stress just fall away…
